Hello my friends and followers
Here I am after a long time, wanting to give you all an update on my life.
as you know my wife is disabled, This started about 15 years ago and until about a year ago this was a stable situation. Although things didn’t improve, they didn’t go worse either. Well… that changed dramatically. Last winter and spring Lijda got more pain in places she never had them. Her joints mostly but also stomach and headaches. We kind of brushed it of as a flu type of thing and carried on as always. Then suddenly around June Lijda woke up one morning asking if I could help her to the toilet. I was unable, there was not a single muscle working in her body and most worrying of all, she was bloody hot and I am not talking looks.
So I called an ambulance. When they came and took her temperature it was close to 42c (107f), an actual life-threatening temperature. The paramedics did everything they could to bring her temperature down and when they got it a bit lower they rushed her with sirens and lights on to the hospital. After investigation on what was going on it proved that Lijda had a UTI (Urinary tract infection). She quickly got admitted and they started treatment (mainly antibiotics) and we expected that she would be back home after a week or two. Two weeks passed, a month, two months… Lijda was free of the infection for weeks but for some reason she did not regain her level of mobility back and we doubted she could live home on her own (well with me) but after 2 months the doctors said ” she can go home tomorrow) ” Tomorrow” was a Saturday and that day I very happy (but also concerned) drove her out of the hospital and back home. It lasted 12 hours, until the next morning.
As usual, I woke up with a request from Lijda to help her to the toilet. It took me an hour, not to get her to the toilet, but to get her from her bed into her chair. She was a dead weight, nothing functioned…. so I called the ambulance again. Back to the hospital, we went, and after discussing with doctors and social workers it was concluded that, at least for the time being, living back home was not an option anymore. She stayed in the hospital for another few weeks until a place was found with a nursing home run by the Salvation Army that was willing and had a place to take her in. The plan was to get her back into a place where returning home was an option. However, after a few months it became clear to them that this would not be an option and as per November 1, Lijda has become a permanent resident of the facility.
This place is about 16 miles away, I do not have a drivers license and only own a bike so every other day, weather permitting, I am on the bike driving to Lijda (a bicycle that is, not a motorized bike) and have been celebrating Christmas alone (except for a few visiting hours Christmas day) and New Year’s Eve I will be separated from her as well.
HOWEVER, Lijda is now in a place where she feels comfortable, at home and safe. She made new friends and is looking great. The fact that she is happy, is taken care for and doesn’t need to worry means the world to me. I will be looking for a new apartment closer to her and who knows, perhaps I can find time and inspiration again to do some blogging.
I hope your year was great and that next year will be awesome. All the best for 2019 and keep an eye on this space. I have done some photography during my bike rides and I might be sharing them soon with you all.
May your next year be filled with love, peace, family, and friends. May you thrive and shine. Let’s rock 2019
Hi dear readers and friends. Long time no sees. I have not been able to ignite the posts in me that I want to share. As you might have seen I have been unhappy with the way our world is developing at the moment and I don’t want to be a doom writer. I want to be a blog about hope, love, and friendship. A blog about people helping this world and everything on it. Ironically, today’s blog is a bit of both.
Who is Mr. Giovanni Brignoni? He is a few things. First and foremost, Mr. Brignoni is a helicopter pilot in Puerto Rico. Secondly, Mr. Brignoni will be a symbol that stands for the people of Puerto Rico and those that are helping them. But let’s start with Mr. Brignoni.
You know… I couldn’t tell you a thing, not a clue except for the little bit I have seen from a video I will link below as Facebook doesn’t allow me to embed. This is a video by David Begnaud. A CBS journalist who has been covering the events in Puerto Rico ever since the Hurricane devastated the islands. While Mr. Begnaud has been keeping P.R in the public eye, Mr. Brignoni has been flying all over, rescuing people with every flight in many ways. Please watch the following to get an emotional but honest report and you might understand why I choose Giovanni Brignoni to be “the face” of today’s Everyday Heroes
I hope you agree that this man is a very shiny example of an Everyday Hero.
The People in Puerto Rico
Thos that lived there and fell victim as well as those that came and are helping the Islanders get back on their feet. Many people are working tirelessly to restore power and water, clean up beaches and town, clear taken down forests. Nature has a habit to heal itself over time and I am sure that in that regard, in a few years Puerto Rico will be back to its former beauty.
I would like to show you a video made by Sigma 3 survival school about their efforts to provide the so much needed help
I want to conclude with a few mentions and requests.
My first mention must be Carmen Yulín Cruz. The Mayor of San Juan who has been a voice for the people of Puerto Rico and has done lots of work when others waited for “official help”. She has imo shown to be a true leader and the people of San Juan and Puerto Rico should be dang proud of her.
My second mention must be my dear friend Horty Rexach. A proud Boricua that lives in the USA and has kept Puerto Rico in the news with her blogs and FB activity. I can advise no better place to go and get to know Puerto Rico and how the situation evolves then by reading It is what it is by Dr.Rex
Finally, I want to request you follow the above blog and David Begnaud and if you happen to feel generous please donate to a relief charity of your choosing. If you don’t know one you might try http://rickymartinfoundation.org/
~~November 7, 2017~~
HUMANITARIAN CRISIS IN PUERTO RICO
CBS 60 MINUTES OVERTIME
This past Sunday, November 5, CBS Television had a special segment detailing information about many Puerto Ricans, American citizens, have endured the longest blackout in American history following a direct hit from Hurricane María. I’ve been looking for this special on YouTube to share it with you.
The situation in Puerto Rico is still dire.
It seems that the segment presented in the regular show isn’t available yet. I will keep looking and share it when I find it.
During my search, I found this 60 Minutes Overtime presented on November 05 by Brit McCandless Farmer.
Take a look, please!
Forty-eight days today, after Hurricane María hit the island, ‘60 Minutes‘ found its citizens trying to make do without water or power – and frequently losing hope
Every day and night in San Juan, there are…
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March with the flag of an enemy of the USA through the streets “free speech”
Flip off president “lose your job”
America…. really? WHAT the BLEEP
~~October 30, 2017~~
MAJORITY OF AMERICA
~HAD TO BE A WOMAN~
Hail to the chief: cyclist gives Drumpf the middle finger
The ‘so-called president’ of the United States is used to being saluted but a cyclist in Virginia put her own particular slant on the tradition on Saturday when she was overtaken by Drumpf’s motorcade.
The woman on her bike was photographed raising her middle finger when Drumpf’s vehicles passed her on their way out from the Drumpf National Golf Club on the banks of the Potomac river, on the outskirts of Washington DC.
She repeated the gesture when she caught up with the motorcade.
As noted in the White House pool report, “POTUS’s motorcade departed the Drumpf National Golf Club at 3:12 PM, passing two pedestrians, one of whom gave a thumbs-down sign.
Then it overtook a female cyclist, wearing a white top and cycling helmet, who responded by…
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#PuertoRicanLivesMatter More than a month after the hurricane most of Puerto Rico is still without power, large areas are still without water. Follow it is what it is to stay informed.
~~November 5, 2017~~
FEELS LIKE AN ETERNITY
Today is the 46th day after Hurricane María made landfall in Puerto Rico. As you know, Puerto Rico is a colony of the mighty imperialistic U.S. of A.
There’s no doubt that the ‘master’ has treated its colony without any regard to the well-beings of its ‘subjects’.
To this day, Puerto Ricans are deeply feeling the effects of this uninterested involvement and response.
Puerto Rico, like a Phoenix, will rise up and be better than it was before.
This is the Boricua spirit!
Here’s a ‘gentle reminder’ of how things are in the Island.
I do not own these images.
No intention of taking credit.
SATURDAY, November 4, NUMBERS
I don’t trust the water availability numbers!
David Begnaud, CBS News Correspondent
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Remove him, peace
~~November 3, 2017~~
WE HAVE A LEADER WHO HAS A PERSONALITY DISORDER
Malignant narcissism is a psychological syndrome comprising an extreme mix of narcissism, antisocial personality disorder, aggression, and sadism. Often grandiose, and always ready to raise hostility levels, the malignant narcissist undermines organizations in which they are involved and dehumanizes the people with whom they associate.
“DO SOMETHING TWEET”
I started reading the book ‘The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump‘ where 27 psychiatrists and mental health experts assess a president. Being in the medical field for all my professional life, I can say that this book is very well written and rather than fictional, story-telling, biographical, it presents medical facts. It is serious and alarming information.
I will also be reading Keith’s new book too.
“Trump is F*cking Crazy
(this is not a joke)”
I feel this is important information about what is happening in the Republican Administration lead…
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Happy holidays… YES HOLIDAYS…. ANY PROBLEM WITH THAT??
~~October 31, 2017~~
PARDON THE ANALOGY
LIKE A ZIT READY TO POP
How long have we been waiting?
Almost one year after the election. I strongly believe there’s so much more, this is just the tip of the iceberg, barely beginning. For the sake of this nation, this process better come to full fruition, with the expected results.
May gawd have mercy on this country!
I feel this is important information about what is happening in the Republican Administration lead by Drumpf and what we need to be aware of.
Keith Olbermann series called “The Resistance” continues.
He has posted installment #141.
The video speaks for itself.
If this resonates with you, good.
If it doesn’t, just scroll away to the next blog.
I do not own these images.
No intention of taking credit.
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America, you are failing your citizens
A report by Richard Fausset for the New York Times.
Dr. Lissette Gutierrez is normally not one to curse. But when the S.U.V. she was traveling in hit a rut and bounced wildly on a mud road carved into a mountainside — a steep decline inches to her right, the pounding rain all around — an expletive escaped her lips like some rare ugly moth.
It was Saturday afternoon, and Dr. Gutierrez was part of a small medical convoy trying to get to an isolated community called Don Alonso, in the mountainous center of Puerto Rico. There was word that no doctor had been to the place since Hurricane Maria had roared over the island Sept. 20, triggering mudslides throughout the largely rural municipality of Utuado, at least one of them deadly.
Dr. Gutierrez, 45, a gynecologist, is a Puerto Rican living on Long Island, and her decision to…
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